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Post by monica on Dec 14, 2015 18:05:06 GMT
Does the post Freudian emphasis on mothering effectively blame women for society’s mental health problems?
This is a bit of a tough one. At the time it may have been seen as blaming some mothers for children's mental health problems, but I don't think it can be said to be blaming women as by far a majority of children grew up to be (fairly) well-adjusted and stable adults. If it was a purely female thing, then one would expect the majority of children to turn out with problems. That said, since the mother was the primary caregiver of the time, and the one most involved with infants and younger children up to the age of adolescence, whereas the father's influence would have been more distant, it would be the easy thing to focus on the mother's role rather than the father (who may well have been the scary disciplinary, or the emotionally absent parent - both of which would have an effect).
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Post by eccentric on Dec 31, 2015 6:30:00 GMT
Yes I would say that Parent blaming is rife post Freud in western societies, this is almost exclusively 'Mother blaming' although fathers are also blamed for being absent so the insinuation is that if the father had been there then he might have been able to prevent any 'mental health issue'. Overall 72 types of mother blaming have been attributed to poor mothering including poor language development, homosexuality, anorexia, fetishism, in sent, delinquency and school drop out. However fathers apparently have no blame in this nor do genetics, nor the education system where children spend half of their waking life. And one could strongly argue that economic stays and social deprivation plays a huge role too. However according to the reading that I have been doing mother blaming was rife even pre Freud. Freud's construct of motherhood was actually an attempt to make sense of the mother blaming that started in the 17th century. My experience as a therapist is that it is important to get clients to move beyond mother or father blaming and to take responsibility for their 'now' and their future themselves
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